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New Jersey divorce: Are you a non-custodial parent?

Divorce is definitely a life-changing process. Whether you were the one who decided to file a petition or the one who signed papers that a court official served to you, you may have felt a bit anxious or worried about the future. Especially regarding your children, it can be challenging to find a new normal and develop a co-parenting plan that keeps your children's best interests in mind. Being a non-custodial parent can take a lot of getting used to.

The good news is that you can definitely take advantage of advanced technology to stay in close contact with your kids. It's true that many people frown upon online communication, saying it isn't as meaningful as in person contact. Person-to-person relationships are undoubtedly the best option when the goal is to create a lasting bond. However, when you no longer live with your kids, you can make the best of it by tapping into available support resources.

Your children should always have access to you

Being a non-custodial parent doesn't mean you no longer wish to be part of your children's lives. It also doesn't mean you are abdicating your parental rights or responsibilities. Unless extenuating circumstances have prompted a judge to restrict your access to your kids, they and you have a right to stay closely connected

It's certainly not unreasonable for you to want your children to be able to contact you at a moment's notice. Advanced technology is a great asset in this way. By using apps, such as FaceTime, Snapchat or Skype, you can schedule virtual visits with your kids or send photos back and forth to keep updated on each other's daily lives.

Social media is a valuable tool for non-custodial parents

Many New Jersey parents spend a lot of time trying to get their children to disconnect from social media to spend more time outdoors or doing other worthwhile things. When you no longer see your kids every day, however, Facebook, Instagram and other social media sites can help you interact in between in-person visits.

You might even consider starting a blog where you and your kids can add posts at will. This is an easy way to share photos or capture memories together. For instance, if you take a field trip together, you can write about it on your blog or post pictures you took that day. Also, if you or your kids go somewhere without each other, a blog is any easy way to keep each other updated.

If your co-parent impedes your relationship

In a perfect world, you and your ex would simply agree to compromise and cooperate as needed for the sake of your children's well-being. In reality, however, differences of opinion and other issues may prompt serious challenges in your ability to maintain an active, healthy relationship with your kids after divorce.

New Jersey parents need not go it alone when legal problems arise regarding an existing child custody court order. The court always has children's best interests in mind when making custody-related decisions and does not look favorably upon those who disregard its rulings.

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